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The Utterly Outdated Saying "Don't Smile Until Christmas" and How it can Ruin a Classroom

Let's tackle a pervasive myth that has been circulating in the teaching community for far too long - the infamous "Don't Smile Until Christmas" approach. While this phrase may have been uttered with good intentions, this mindset can dampen a teaching environment.

Everyone knows teaching is so much more than shoving a curriculum down kids' throats. A relationship between students and teachers sometimes teaches them more than the class ever could. The first day of school is already nerve racking as it is, don't make the rest of the year like that.

As teachers, we have the incredible opportunity to shape the learning journey of our students. Creating a warm atmosphere from the very beginning, a stage is set for positive interactions and engagement. Smiles are contagious, and when we greet our students with a friendly demeanor, we show them that we care about their happiness and comfort in the classroom.

Trust is the foundation of any successful teacher-student relationship. When we withhold smiles or expressions of kindness, we unintentionally create a barrier between ourselves and our students. This lack of openness can lead students to feel disconnected, anxious, or unsure of their place in the classroom. On the other hand, when we smile and show genuine interest, we invite them to feel safe and valued, fostering trust and building a strong rapport that will enhance their learning experience.

The key to a successful classroom environment is striking the right balance between firmness and love. Being firm doesn't mean being strict or authoritarian; it means setting clear boundaries and expectations. Consistency is the magic ingredient here. When students know what to expect, they feel secure and know they are in a safe space to learn and grow.

However, let's not forget the power of love and compassion. It's essential to be understanding of your students' emotions and challenges they may face outside the classroom. A supportive and empathetic approach can make a significant difference in how they perceive themselves and their academic journey.

As the school year progresses and you develop a stronger relationship with your students, you'll find opportunities to ease up a bit. You'll have a better understanding of each student's needs and personalities, allowing you to personalize your teaching approach.

Remember, it's okay to let loose occasionally, have a laugh, and infuse a little fun into your lessons. Building positive memories with your students will create a lasting impact on their overall learning experience.

Learning should be enjoyable and inspiring! As teachers, we have the power to ignite a passion for learning by infusing positivity, humor, and enthusiasm into our classrooms. A smile can go a long way in making the learning journey enjoyable and memorable for students, fostering a love for knowledge that could continue for a long time to come.

Huge, love, lots of kisses,


Ty Tiger | Kinda Sorta Teacher



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